The people born in the 1960s built an engine inside themselves that rarely announces itself. It hums. It pushes. Sometimes it demands and sometimes it simply persists. This is not nostalgia for bell bottoms or vinyl. It is an attempt to name a pattern I keep seeing in friends clients and readers who trace their … Read more
There is a strange silence in the way many people born before 1980 talk about getting things done. Motivation used to be the flashy headline of the self help era. Now you hear less about fleeting inspiration and more about showing up, finishing what you started and the stubborn, almost unromantic craft of habit. This … Read more
I keep bumping into the same odd economy of effort when I talk to people born in the 1960s. They do not ask for applause. They do not hang their moods on compliments. They get on with things. This is not sentimental nostalgia. It is a behavioural pattern I have watched in homes factories small … Read more
There is something unmistakable about someone who grew up in the 1970s. It is not merely a taste for flared trousers or a laconic way of replying to nonsense. It is a visible muscle of agency. People raised in the 1970s learned to act without needing encouragement and that trait often shows up in small … Read more
There is a piece of furniture quietly remaking small British homes and it is not a folding table or a stack of chairs shoved into a cupboard. It is banquette seating the built in upholstered bench that tucks into an alcove and recalibrates how we eat linger and use a room. I have watched this … Read more
There is something quietly strange about walking through new developments and noticing the same gap again and again. A neat two bedroom flat marketed as lifestyle living. An open kitchen that flows into a sofa and a pancake of an island. No dining table. Not a corner for one. Just a ledge, a stool, a … Read more
I am going to admit something small and selfish right away I like sauces that look like someone loved them into existence not like they were engineered in a test kitchen. That is precisely why I love the no equipment pasta sauce I am writing about here. It asks nothing of you except a pot … Read more
I have an embarrassing confession. After years of chasing complicated sauces and flamboyant techniques I keep coming back to a pot that starts with only four things and somehow ends up tasting like someone charged a lot and smiled while serving it. If you want to make something that feels like a restaurant without the … Read more
Humans have a softer relationship with smell than many animals. We perfume our homes and pour lavender into baths and call it calm. Rodents do not operate by our aesthetics. For them scent is a map a threat assessment a gossip column and a mating ad all at once. This odd sensory priority explains why … Read more
There is a smell that makes rodents pause. Not a miracle cure, not a guaranteed eviction notice, but a consistent irritant to a mammal whose world is mapped by scent. Homeowners and gardeners have been using that scent for decades while pest controllers roll their eyes and think about sealing gaps. This article looks at … Read more